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When 43-year-old Paul Wrightson decided to take his two mixed-race daughters
out for a pizza he had no idea it would cause him and his family such
embarrassment.
Paul has been married to Sherlinda his Asian wife for 19 years and they
have three mixed-race daughters, Sita, 18, Asha, 15, and Sonia, 13.
Whilst his wife was busy helping out a friend Paul decided to take his
two youngest daughters out for a treat to the local Pizza Hut in Bingley,
West Yorkshire.
Paul had just finished his pizza when he noticed two Police Community
Support Officers (PCSOs) enter the restaurant. He joked with his daughters
that the officers were probably coming in for their tea. To his surprise
the two officers walked up to Paul and asked him to accompany them outside.
'One officer stayed in the restaurant with the girls and the other explained
that a member of the public had seen a white man with two Asian girls
acting suspiciously,' he said. The officer asked Paul if he could prove
he was their father and he explained that he didn't have any sort of
documentation because he had met his girls after work to get some dinner.
The PCSO told Paul it looked strange a white man being with two Asian girls.
In the meantime a female PCSO asked Asha and Sonia who Mr Wrightson was
and they also explained that he was their dad. Asha also told the officer
that she was embarrassing them and that the whole restaurant was looking
at them.
Paul was eventually able to go back to his daughters who were visibly upset
by the questions that the officer had been asking. 'Is it getting to the
stage where I can't go out with my own daughters?' asked Paul.
Paul's wife Sherlinda, says that her daughters and her husband were all
very upset by the incident and in particular the way that the officers
handled the situation.
'I was devastated when Paul told me what happened. I've never come across
anything like it my life. I was beside myself and one of my daughters had
trouble sleeping that night,' she said.
Paul has received an apology from an Inspector and Sergeant at Bingley
Police Station and he hopes that this does not happen to another family.
'I shouldn't have to explain to anyone who I am when I have done nothing
wrong expect take my daughters out for a meal. This may have been the first
time that this has happened but does that mean it is going to be the last?'
Sherlinda said that she hoped the police would be more sensitive in the
future.
'They should be more open- minded, I mean we are living in a multi-cultural
society. When I married Paul it was in more difficult times. I expect people
to more open-minded now.'
A spokesman for West Yorkshire Police said: 'We responded to a report made
in good faith by a concerned member of the public. We apologise for any
inconvenience or embarrassment that was caused.'