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On the 17th of May 2004 (my 31st birthday!), my then fiancée Sarah
was admitted to hospital, and within a 48hours diagnosed with Acute Myeloid
Leukaemia (AML). This came out of the blue, ten weeks before a wedding
we were forced to postpone due to Sarah’s treatment. Thirteen months
of remission, six months of treatment, four rounds of chemotherapy and
one beautiful wedding later, we believed we had seen the last of this
disease, only for Sarah to relapse 3 days before Xmas 2005. She started
treatment this week, with two rounds of chemo scheduled to prepare her
for a bone marrow transplant later in the year. We are just beginning
the search for an appropriate match.
Both Sarah and I are mixed race, born to one white English parent and
one parent first generation Black British, with two Jamaican grandparents.
The donor who saves Sarah’s life will almost certainly have a similar
mixed background, white European and black, although their origins could
be different (i.e. from anywhere in world with a European bloodline mixed
with, Caribbean or other heritage of the
African Diaspora).
At the moment the age range to register new donors is 18 to 45, although
you can still make a donation once registered until the age of 60. The
reason that you can’t register between 45 and 60 is that it is
not considered cost effective (the registration process costs about £75)
to place people on the register who we know are definitely not going
to be viable donors in fifteen years. I believe that in the case of ethnic
minorities, where the chances of finding an appropriate match drop from
1 in 5 if you have only a Northern European heritage, to 1 in 100,000
if you are from ANY of the ethnic minorities (in other words it becomes
20,000 time less likely!) we must raise that to fifty five at least so
that we can try and help the people who are suffering now. Advances in
medical technology mean there is a chance inside ten years bone marrow
donation might be a thing of the past (advances in stem cell technology
have made huge strides) but there are people today we must save first.
This policy is short-sighted and MUST change and change fast.
Living in one of the most culturally and racially diverse and integrated
cities in the world means that I know one thing for certain. There is
someone out there in London tonight who is a tissue type match with Sarah.
All we have to is convince them to come forward and join the register
and the doctors will do the rest.
Sarah, a teacher who works in the school in Peckham where she herself was
a pupil, will be celebrating her 32nd birthday THIS Wednesday in an isolation
room in a South London Hospital. If you don’t already know what present
to give her to celebrate this joyous day, please call the ACLT and they
will let you know what she would really like. What ever your heritage you
could help somebody like you.
PS. If you are too old or too young, or if there is
a medical reason why you can’t give the gift of life, please spread
the word to your family and friends or anyone else who could help. Also
the African Caribbean Leukaemia Trust (ACLT) could always do with funds
to help support them, supporting people like us.
Donations are possible via their website,
www.aclt.org , or call 020 8667 1122.
Thanks you from both of us, in advance for your all your support. Remember,
there is no justice, just us.