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Tiger
Woods opened America's eyes to the inaccuracy of seeing ethnic identity
in terms of black and white. In Britain, the debate has not begun -
but, in a series of exclusive interviews, Observer Sport reveals a
surprising depth of feeling.
You have only to look at England's World
Cup squad this summer. Six out of seven of the players described as 'black'
were mixed-race, but this was not mentioned on TV or in the written
press. Mixed-race people account for about 1.4 per cent of Britain's
population, so for mixed-race footballers to make up 26 per cent of England's
elite is a huge achievement. Theirs is the fastest growing ethnic minority
in the country and yet 'mixed- race' was included in the UK census for
the first time only in 2001. Factor in that a high number of mixed-race
children are raised in single-parent households and that mixed-race people
are more likely to be victims of crime than any other ethnic group in
Britain and it becomes all the more apparent as to why their achievements
should be applauded.
This year, football's anti-racism campaign, Kick It Out, launched their
week of action around the slogan 'One Game, One Community'. But mixed-race
challenges conventional notions about community. The very different stories
of the six World Cup players gives an indication of how diverse that term
can be.
Ashley Cole is a good example. He isn't offended by being
described as
black. 'But,' he says firmly, 'I call myself mixed-race.' Ashley was raised
by his mother in east London. 'It was a predominantly white home environment.
I didn't really see my black family. At home we ate English food; when
we went to parties we didn't listen to soca or reggae, it would be English
music. But in football you're just seen as black or white; I don't think
people realise the difference.'
But being either black or white in football can be difficult, as Stan Collymore's
autobiography, Tackling My Demons, explains. 'Show me two rooms,' he wrote,
'one with black footballers, one with white footballers, and I would pick
a room on my own.' Collymore, who grew up with his white mother in Cannock,
felt alienated by the urban black culture he encountered at his first club,
Crystal Palace. He says he felt 'torn apart' and 'isolated'.
Growing up surrounded by white faces in Welwyn Garden City in Hertfordshire,
David James was the only non-white child at his junior school. 'I was called
a coon and a black bastard,' he says. 'I lived with my white mum so I couldn't
go back to an ethnic home and relate the experience. At school I was asked
if I was adopted. I got confused and I'd go home and ask my mum if I was
divorced.' James believes that there was a direct correlation between bullying
because of his mixed-race background and his low self-esteem. 'Trying to
break records in goal was all about proving that I was valuable.'
Curtis Davies, the West Brom defender, whose mother is English and father
is from Sierra Leone, says the distinctions between black and white are
important to him. 'I'm as much white as I am black. People have
got to acknowledge that. My mum is white and I don't want people to discount
that.' Davies has an older half-brother who is white. 'Every time we went
to football people couldn't believe we were brothers,' he says. 'They couldn't
take that I could be related to a white person.'
Jobi McAnuff says the same of his white cousins who
sometimes watch him play for Palace. 'My mum's side of the family are
from Portsmouth. But I don't think many of the lads at football can imagine
me sat round eating a traditional English roast dinner with my white
uncles and aunts. People tend to see me as black, but there's a big difference
between black and mixed race. I can identify with Tiger Woods on that.'
Jobi celebrates his fluid identity, but he admits
that in football there are racial cliques. 'From my experience I get
seen as one of the 'brothers'. You walk into the canteen and
there's a table of black boys and the white boys are up the other end,
but I don't see it as a negative. I'd like to think it's easier for me
to cross between groups, but my white friends at Palace still see me
as black. People only see skin deep and society says I look more black
than white.'
For Curtis Davies, a fluid identity can also raise
difficult questions. 'If I'm walking down the street with black mates,
it's cold and we've got our hoodies up, we are likely to get name-checked
by the police. I've been with my white mates, same area, same hoodies
and it's never happened. The police don't even look or slow down. I guess
that's another aspect about the split in my race,' he says.
England women's striker Rachel Yankey grew up in west
London with an English mother; her Ghanaian father did not live with
them. Sometimes it is the small things about a mixed-race background
that make the most impression. 'I've been in a shop with my mum and they've
looked at both of us and gone, 'I can see you're related', and I'm thinking,
'Why say that?' Or hairdressers, that's the most common one. I remember
going to white hairdressers with my mum and they couldn't cut it right,
or they put the wrong products in.
Rachel says she feels uncomfortable when people assume things about her because
of how she looks. She tells the story of an African mother to a child who attends
her coaching sessions. 'She brought in some traditional African food for me and
asked if I knew what it was. She wasn't quizzing me, but I felt that being half-African
I should know. It bothered me that I didn't. I felt I had to explain. I said
that my dad didn't bring me up, I didn't grow up eating African food.'
The example of Stan Collymore and his rooms full of black and white people elicits
interesting responses. David James says he would probably hang out on his own,
while Curtis Davies is aghast at the idea of having to choose. 'Choosing which
room to go into?' he says. 'That's like choosing who to save from a burning building,
your mum or your dad.'
Rachel Yankey's view is more complex. 'When you go in the white room you know
you're different looking, but I've grown up with white people so that's probably
where I'd feel most comfortable. When you go in the black room you look similar
but you don't feel as comfortable inside. I'm happiest when I'm surrounded by
a mix of people.'