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I
have a much lighter complexion and have been confused — often
to my advantage — for Italian, Greek, Portuguese, Spanish, French,
Arab, Israeli and, once, even Czech..
In July 1964, a Pan American World Airways
flight from Los Angeles landed in Sydney, Australia, carrying my newly
married parents.
My father, a Scottish doctor, had been working in remote Burnie, Tasmania,
for six months and was returning with his bride after their wedding in
her native Jamaica.
They had met at university years earlier in Aberdeen, where my mother was
studying home economics to be close to her two older sisters, one of whom
was in my father's class at medical school.
At the time, Australia had a 'whites-only' immigration policy, so my
father went through hoops to get my mother, whose background is a mélange
of black, white, South Asian and Jewish, into the country.
As the confident young couple strolled through customs at Kingsford Smith
International Airport, they were met by a surly immigration official.
Looking dubiously at my brown-skinned mother, the clerk turned to my white
father and said, 'Well, what is she doing here, mate?'
'In one of the finer moments of my life,' my father recalled recently,
'I reached into my jacket pocket, took out a letter from the minister of
immigration and said, `Because your boss says so ... mate.' Problem solved.'
Interestingly, my mother, who grew up the privileged and attractive youngest
child of banana plantation owner, barely remembers that unpleasant little
episode, which happened a few years before I was born.
She insists she cannot recall any instance of racism directed toward her
while living in Jamaica, Scotland, Australia, or Canada, and I believe
her. Being that we are both what folks who are hung up on this sort of
stuff might call 'mulatto,' I don't think I've experienced racism, either.
I have a much lighter complexion than she does and have been confused — often
to my advantage — for Italian, Greek, Portuguese, Spanish, French,
Arab, Israeli and, once, even Czech.
But no one has ever asked me if I am Jamaican, including on my many trips
to the island, or even if I had any black blood.
Back in the late 1990s, largely at the urging of my friend and former colleague
Desmond Brown of CTV News, I was briefly a member of the Canadian Association
of Black Journalists.
This was a source of bemusement to my parents, as well as to a few of my
cousins in Jamaica (who would likely be called black in Canada but see
themselves as brown).
As they saw it, however noble the goals of CABJ, I could hardly relate
to the challenges faced by some black journalists because I have never
suffered the ignominy of racial prejudice.
While it's true I haven't been slurred with a racist epithet, passed over
for a job because of my skin colour, or had a cabbie refuse to pick me
up at night, I'm always aware of race.
The other day, for instance, I was at a tedious early morning presentation
given by Premier Dalton McGuinty to some municipal politicians, and I jokingly
whispered to one of his top aides, who shares my West Indian heritage,
that it looked 'like a white people's convention in here.'
'We're the only brown people in the room,' I quipped.
She laughed knowingly, because at a lot of events we both attend for our
respective jobs we're a distinct minority — even though in my case,
at least, not a visible one.
Without getting too Ralph Ellison, I actually relish being a sort of invisible
man. In my line of work, it can make for better and easier newsgathering
because you can blend in and unobtrusively observe.
My generic swarthy looks — my white Canadian wife would say 'exotically
handsome' — have probably helped me in covering Italian Mafia funerals,
Parliament Hill protests by Muslims against the first Gulf War, heated
political nomination meetings, and any number of other types of news stories.
More importantly, being of 'mixed-race' keeps me enough of an outsider
that I almost feel above the racial fray on most occasions.
I can honestly say I have never felt awkward in any church, mosque, temple
or synagogue — and not just because I am a detached agnostic, having
been forced to thrice-weekly Anglican chapel services while at Royal St.
George's College.
Still, I must admit the sight of a racially mixed couple always warms my
heart.
I like that I share an improbable bond with people as disparate as Bob
Marley and Halle Berry, Derek Jeter and Michael Manley.